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We want more..midwives that is.

January 8, 2014 · by munchiesandmunchkins · 3 Comments

There is a big shortage of midwives in the UK. A shortfall of nearly 2300. Shocking?

Births on the other hand are at a 40 year high. Something doesn’t make sense.

Government cutbacks and promises which haven’t been carried out are to blame.

As someone who has spent a LOT of time in NHS hospitals over the past year being looked after by overworked, over stretched and tired midwives I can tell you who suffers – the mother and of course the child.

On numerous occasions during my pregnancy I was in a hospital bed for sometimes 6-8 hours without any offer of a drink or food. One day I was almost administered somebody else’s medicine as the midwife (in her own words) was in a tired daze.

After giving birth and at a time when postnatal care is SO important I had to wait over 5 hours for overdue pain relief, I had a pretty bad birth, my pain was intense and my emotional state wasn’t great.

Do I blame the midwives? No. As frustrated as I was at the time I could see that the staff just had too much to do.

When staff are tired and working too hard then mistakes are mad. Cases of medical negligence are on the rise and its all too easy to see how it happens. £22.7billion was set aside in 2013 to cover medical negligence claims.

On the third day after Chloe was born, an important error was made. A member of the nursing staff recorded her temperature incorrectly and because of this she was cannulated and prepared to receive antibiotics. Cannulating an infant is not a simple process. In fact it took 3 Doctors and 1 midwife and 1 special light ( as her veins were too small) over 2 hours to complete it. I had to leave the room, it was an extremely upsetting experience for all of us.

Chloe just after being cannulated:

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When the Doctor and Midwife came to apologise to us for the mistake that had been made, my reaction was relief. I was upset that she had to go through it of course but there was nothing wrong with her. I was thankful. If a mistake had been made that resulted in a negative outcome it would have been a different matter.

More staff are needed. It’s essential. You only have to read this story in last weeks Independent from a midwife who is retiring to understand how hard this profession is becoming.

Breastfeeding issues, postnatal depression and infant illness could be picked up at an earlier stage with staff who have more energy and support.

The midwives I did have personal dealings with were lovely, supportive and knowledgable but I know that the way they do their jobs could be so much better if only they had one important thing ..time.

Happy faces after finding out Chloe was ok and we were able to go home 🙂

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*This is a PR collaboration

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Filed Under: Pregnancy, Uncategorized · Tagged: Midwife, NHS, shortage

Sleep… Where did you go…my lovely?

January 6, 2014 · by munchiesandmunchkins · 2 Comments

So I did it. I committed the ultimate parenting sin of saying (rather smugly) that my newborn daughter sleeps quite well at night. I have been quite amazed at how well she does as the first 6 months of nighttimes with Izzy were pretty horrendous. Chloe will most nights have one five hour stretch of sleep without waking for a feed. I think for a 7 week old baby that this is fabulous and I wouldn’t expect anything more.. One night we had 7hours but that was definitely a fluke.

The problem is when you think sleep is going to be ok that you sort of begin to depend on it but to do this with a new baby is silly. It’s better to think that sleep will be awful and be amazed when it isn’t rather than the other way around.

You know when you wake in a mild state of panic feel your incredibly engorged breasts and frantically check the baby is fine. You then try to wake baby who is in a deep sleep and is having none of it before sneaking to the bathroom to hand express in the sink.. Or is that just me?

Lack of sleep does crazy things to you. Last night my daughter didn’t sleep. From the time we went to bed until 6.30am. She also fed from 7.30am yesterday morning until 6.30am today every 45 minutes ..or less. So I was pretty drained without the lack of sleep to accompany it. It made me feel like I was going insane. If she did that every night I would go crazy I’m sure.

I’m pretty sure I know why it happened. Firstly she was (I’m assuming) having a growth spurt hence the manic feeding and secondly before bed I drank a soft drink which contained caffeine (Dr Pepper) I’ve cut out caffeine completely since Chloe arrived and I’ve drunk Dr Pepper on 3 occasions not knowing it contained caffeine – oops. On each occasion we have had a real problem with sleep. Last night being the worst. So perhaps Chloe is sensitive to caffeine. I’m cutting it out completely now.

Anyway today has been a bit of a blur. I chose a bubble bath instead of a nap – impossible to have both when you have a toddler and a newborn and I regretted that decision all afternoon. Never mind.

I’ve realised since C arrived how lucky I am that Izzy still has a good 1.5hr nap each day. Without that I wouldn’t get anything done. I’m hoping we can keep it going until she turns 3. That is a big ask but she does love her sleep so fingers crossed.

What helps your baby/toddler sleep? For us with the baby it’s swaddling, white noise (via Ewan the sheep) and lots of milk before bed. For Izzy it’s keeping her busy in the day, her snugly toy for bed at night. A cosy bed with blankets and her pillow and protein in the afternoon/evening.

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Filed Under: Parenting/baby, Pregnancy · Tagged: Sleep, zombie mums

50 books in 2014

January 2, 2014 · by munchiesandmunchkins · 3 Comments

I used to read a lot. When I say a lot I mean about 2-3 books a week minimum normally more. I could sit down with a book and read it in a few hours. My parents called me the book worm and when I met my boyfriend he would test me by questioning me on random parts of books as he didn’t believe I could read that quickly. I would buy books most weeks, sometimes from charity shops or ebay/amazon and borrow lots from the library. On a beach holiday I could easily read 10 books in a week.

Here is a post about some of my favourite books

Since having children I read a lot less. I miss it. I miss the escapism of reading a book. I now watch more mindless tv or films and while I’m not going to stop this I definitely want to get back to reading more. I’ve set myself a target of 50 books this year. 5 years ago I would have laughed at that amount but last year I probably read half that amount.

I’m going to read in the bath, while feeding and before bed. I find it calms me and it definitely helps keep my brain active. It can be far too easy to slip into a brain slump when you are always around toddlers.

I may even share some reviews of books that I particularly like on here.

It’s now January 2nd and I am halfway through book 2. Technically book 1 was started in 2013 but let’s not split hairs.

Book 1 was The Husbands Secret by Liane Moriarty – I really enjoyed this book and would give it 4/5 stars.

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Book 2 is The Rosie Project by Graeme Simsion – really enjoying this too and it’s one that I really want to finish soon!

Let’s hope I manage to keep up with this challenge. Any book recommendations would be great – I read all genres.

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2013 Photo Diary

January 1, 2014 · by munchiesandmunchkins · 1 Comment

We began the year with a trip to Bristol Zoo..

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Followed by a snowy stay at Bluestones holiday park..

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We went to visit friends in London who took some lovely pics of us…

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We played..

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Then we had some rather exciting news…

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Izzy had her first skating lesson..

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We dined alfresco..

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And chased bubbles…

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We went to the beach…

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There was a big birthday and a growing bump..

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We did some gardening..

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And the bump grew bigger again..

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We splashed..

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And learned to cook…

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We saw some giant HaaHoos at In the Night Garden Live ..

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We fished with Grandpa..

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Then I attended Britmums live and won a Vitamix..

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We visited Bluestone again and spent lots of time in the pool..

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We went to Camp Bestival and saw Mr Tumble!…

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We attended our first wedding as a family of 3 plus an ever growing bump..

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Izzy turned 2…

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And my bump grew and grew..

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We saw fireworks..

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Someone special arrived.. Welcome Chloe..

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We all love her very much..

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She is very cute..

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Our family of four..

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Chloe loves mammys milk…

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We met Father Christmas..

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Christmas Day playing with great nans pearls..

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Chloe dressed up like Mrs Christmas too..

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And she learned to smile..

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Lots more pics to follow in 2014 – Happy New Year! Xxx

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Money Saving 2014 Part 1 – The stock take

January 1, 2014 · by munchiesandmunchkins · 1 Comment

It’s not a resolution as such but every year I make the effort to save money. This year I need to be even thriftier than usual as for a good chunk of it I will be on maternity leave and earning a lot less.

As always I will be sharing my tips with you.

The first thing I recommend that you all do is take stock. Literally. I did this last year and it really worked so well for us. I emptied my food cupboards, gave them a good clean and repacked them but whilst doing so I kept a tally in my notebook of exactly what was in there. You could keep your results in your notebook or stick in sheets inside your cupboard doors. This year I have my new pantry so I MUST be more organised. I have no more excuses,

For example:

3 X cartons of passata
2 X tins of chickpeas
3 X pasta twists

Etc etc

You can them amend whenever you use something so you know when to replenish.

I then did the same with both my fridge and freezer. When I had finished I sat down and meal planned for the following month. I was pretty amazed at the time to realise I had enough food in my house to feed us for 20 days with just a minimal fresh food spend of £20 per week for the remainder of the month. Crazy huh?

From then I did a big shop (approx £90-100) at the beginning of each month followed by weekly fresh food only shops of £20. I saved lots of money and I found that by meal planning we were all eating better meals and wasting less. I hate waste. When I got pregnant and had really bad morning sickness it all went a bit wrong and I stopped most of my frugal ways but I am determined to do better this year.

I am going to use my slow cooker more to free up my afternoons and evenings but also so I can use cheaper cuts of meat along with the mountains of chickpeas and butter beans I seem to have accumulated.

Tomorrow I will write up the results of this years stock take and the meals I plan from it as well as my new weekly shopping budget.

I will continue to share my money saving ideas and any tips you have are gratefully received.

Join me. Save some pennies.

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Filed Under: Budgeting · Tagged: budgeting, food, maternity leave, money saving, pantry, stock take, thrifty

The year that was..

December 31, 2013 · by munchiesandmunchkins · Leave a Comment

I can hardly believe its New Years Eve. It has been the longest year of my life. I have to say I’m quite glad it’s over. I am however looking forward to 2014 with a positive frame of mind.

This year began with me in work full time, living with my boyfriend and 1yr old daughter hoping and wanting baby two.

We got our wish. At the beginning of March I found out I was pregnant – we were ecstatic, however only 2 weeks later the worries began and unfortunately continued throughout the entire pregnancy. It was stressful, depressing and a very low time for all of us.

Izzy has been wonderful and kept us smiling (even laughing) with her brilliantly funny ways. I cannot tell you how much happiness she brings to our lives.

And on November 19th at 8.30pm an absolutely incredible event happened. Our second daughter arrived safely and healthy. She is beautiful and a true joy. It was worth the stress and worry as I guess I always knew it would be.

It hasn’t been an easy year but its done. I won’t be pregnant again. I won’t have to face that particular worry and stress again. And look what we achieved.

The year ends with me on maternity leave spending all of my day with my wonderful girls.

As 2013 draws to a close all I feel is thankful. Thankful for my baby born healthy without any problems. Thankful for Izzy who makes me smile a million times a day. Thankful for the two of them together as sisters. Thankful to my other half who soppy as it sounds makes my world a better place. Thankful to my family for being so supportive all the time. Thankful for this blog for giving me an outlet and thankful to you for reading it.

Happy New Year. May it bring you happiness and love.

Xxx

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Silent Sunday

December 29, 2013 · by munchiesandmunchkins · 5 Comments

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What to expect…

December 28, 2013 · by munchiesandmunchkins · 2 Comments

What to expect from my blog in 2014…

* Two new regular features:

– We can cook – this will be a recipe that you can cook with your children with pictures/videos of myself and my daughter showing you how we do it.

– We go together like… – this will be a monthly recipe showing you how two flavours can work well together inspired by my new Flavour Thesaurus.

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* Family Festival Fun – I will be telling you all about the best festivals of the summer to visit with your little ones as well as the most drool worthy food festivals.

*Travelling with two – all about our travels ( we hope to do a lot) and the laughter, fun, tears and tantrums which go with it.

All this as well as thrifty posts.. starting very soon.. weight loss, recipes, general ramblings and parenting stories.

I hope you continue to read and enjoy in 2014 and please comment if you like as I love to read them!

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A letter to you ..

December 24, 2013 · by munchiesandmunchkins · 2 Comments

Dear You,

My lovely blog readers.. Just a very quick note to wish you a very Merry Christmas. I know my blog has been a little down in the dumps at times this year but so many of you have been so supportive and I appreciate it very much.

Next year expect lots more foodie content, travel post and stories about how we are coping with parenting two small children!

Hope you all have a great time with your families and friends and get everything you want from Father Christmas 🙂

I already have everything I want this Christmas.

You won’t hear much from me this Festive period as I plan on enjoying every minute of it with my family but I will be back soon enough…

Lots of love to you all

Xxxx

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Unearthed Chorizo Review

December 23, 2013 · by munchiesandmunchkins · 1 Comment

Unearthed was started in 2008 by a team of three ( Simon, Carrie and Susie) to share their favourite food discoveries found on their travels around Europe.

I was sent some of their Chorizo cooking sausages to try – aren’t I the lucky one?

I used half of them to make an adapted version of this Chicken and Chorizo Casserole recipe

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and then the other half I used to make this Spicy Sausage slow cooker stew – YUM.

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We really enjoyed this product – I especially liked the Paprika flavour coming through as it added a smokiness to the dishes.

Hope they start selling it in my local supermarkets soon!

It’s currently available via Ocado and Waitrose.

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