In The Night Garden Live 2014

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You may remember that we went to see In The Night Garden Live last June and thoroughly enjoyed, you can read the review here

Well it’s back for 2014 and we are definitely going again..not sure who is more excited to be honest with you 😉

Tickets go on sale 31.1.13 but you can enter the pre sale competition on Facebook from the 14.1.13.

Every day from 14 – 27 January, Facebook fans can win Premium family tickets worth £160. To sign up for the pre-sale Facebook users must visit www.NightGardenLive.com

Competition entrants earn points by sharing Facebook posts, playing games and inviting friends. There’s a daily ticket prize for the top scorers and the more they play the further ahead in the queue they get to book tickets in the pre-sale.
Over 440,000 people to date have seen the world’s only live production of the CBeebies top-rated show. This will be the fifth consecutive tour of this delightful children’s summer classic, which takes place in its own family-friendly Showdome.

To find out more about the staged event of the BAFTA award-winning CBeebies children’s TV show visit: www.NightGardenLive.com

*Also check back here in a few weeks for a super discount code for money off your tickets 🙂

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We want more..midwives that is.

There is a big shortage of midwives in the UK. A shortfall of nearly 2300. Shocking?

Births on the other hand are at a 40 year high. Something doesn’t make sense.

Government cutbacks and promises which haven’t been carried out are to blame.

As someone who has spent a LOT of time in NHS hospitals over the past year being looked after by overworked, over stretched and tired midwives I can tell you who suffers – the mother and of course the child.

On numerous occasions during my pregnancy I was in a hospital bed for sometimes 6-8 hours without any offer of a drink or food. One day I was almost administered somebody else’s medicine as the midwife (in her own words) was in a tired daze.

After giving birth and at a time when postnatal care is SO important I had to wait over 5 hours for overdue pain relief, I had a pretty bad birth, my pain was intense and my emotional state wasn’t great.

Do I blame the midwives? No. As frustrated as I was at the time I could see that the staff just had too much to do.

When staff are tired and working too hard then mistakes are mad. Cases of medical negligence are on the rise and its all too easy to see how it happens. £22.7billion was set aside in 2013 to cover medical negligence claims.

On the third day after Chloe was born, an important error was made. A member of the nursing staff recorded her temperature incorrectly and because of this she was cannulated and prepared to receive antibiotics. Cannulating an infant is not a simple process. In fact it took 3 Doctors and 1 midwife and 1 special light ( as her veins were too small) over 2 hours to complete it. I had to leave the room, it was an extremely upsetting experience for all of us.

Chloe just after being cannulated:

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When the Doctor and Midwife came to apologise to us for the mistake that had been made, my reaction was relief. I was upset that she had to go through it of course but there was nothing wrong with her. I was thankful. If a mistake had been made that resulted in a negative outcome it would have been a different matter.

More staff are needed. It’s essential. You only have to read this story in last weeks Independent from a midwife who is retiring to understand how hard this profession is becoming.

Breastfeeding issues, postnatal depression and infant illness could be picked up at an earlier stage with staff who have more energy and support.

The midwives I did have personal dealings with were lovely, supportive and knowledgable but I know that the way they do their jobs could be so much better if only they had one important thing ..time.

Happy faces after finding out Chloe was ok and we were able to go home 🙂

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*This is a PR collaboration

Sleep… Where did you go…my lovely?

So I did it. I committed the ultimate parenting sin of saying (rather smugly) that my newborn daughter sleeps quite well at night. I have been quite amazed at how well she does as the first 6 months of nighttimes with Izzy were pretty horrendous. Chloe will most nights have one five hour stretch of sleep without waking for a feed. I think for a 7 week old baby that this is fabulous and I wouldn’t expect anything more.. One night we had 7hours but that was definitely a fluke.

The problem is when you think sleep is going to be ok that you sort of begin to depend on it but to do this with a new baby is silly. It’s better to think that sleep will be awful and be amazed when it isn’t rather than the other way around.

You know when you wake in a mild state of panic feel your incredibly engorged breasts and frantically check the baby is fine. You then try to wake baby who is in a deep sleep and is having none of it before sneaking to the bathroom to hand express in the sink.. Or is that just me?

Lack of sleep does crazy things to you. Last night my daughter didn’t sleep. From the time we went to bed until 6.30am. She also fed from 7.30am yesterday morning until 6.30am today every 45 minutes ..or less. So I was pretty drained without the lack of sleep to accompany it. It made me feel like I was going insane. If she did that every night I would go crazy I’m sure.

I’m pretty sure I know why it happened. Firstly she was (I’m assuming) having a growth spurt hence the manic feeding and secondly before bed I drank a soft drink which contained caffeine (Dr Pepper) I’ve cut out caffeine completely since Chloe arrived and I’ve drunk Dr Pepper on 3 occasions not knowing it contained caffeine – oops. On each occasion we have had a real problem with sleep. Last night being the worst. So perhaps Chloe is sensitive to caffeine. I’m cutting it out completely now.

Anyway today has been a bit of a blur. I chose a bubble bath instead of a nap – impossible to have both when you have a toddler and a newborn and I regretted that decision all afternoon. Never mind.

I’ve realised since C arrived how lucky I am that Izzy still has a good 1.5hr nap each day. Without that I wouldn’t get anything done. I’m hoping we can keep it going until she turns 3. That is a big ask but she does love her sleep so fingers crossed.

What helps your baby/toddler sleep? For us with the baby it’s swaddling, white noise (via Ewan the sheep) and lots of milk before bed. For Izzy it’s keeping her busy in the day, her snugly toy for bed at night. A cosy bed with blankets and her pillow and protein in the afternoon/evening.

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50 books in 2014

I used to read a lot. When I say a lot I mean about 2-3 books a week minimum normally more. I could sit down with a book and read it in a few hours. My parents called me the book worm and when I met my boyfriend he would test me by questioning me on random parts of books as he didn’t believe I could read that quickly. I would buy books most weeks, sometimes from charity shops or ebay/amazon and borrow lots from the library. On a beach holiday I could easily read 10 books in a week.

Here is a post about some of my favourite books

Since having children I read a lot less. I miss it. I miss the escapism of reading a book. I now watch more mindless tv or films and while I’m not going to stop this I definitely want to get back to reading more. I’ve set myself a target of 50 books this year. 5 years ago I would have laughed at that amount but last year I probably read half that amount.

I’m going to read in the bath, while feeding and before bed. I find it calms me and it definitely helps keep my brain active. It can be far too easy to slip into a brain slump when you are always around toddlers.

I may even share some reviews of books that I particularly like on here.

It’s now January 2nd and I am halfway through book 2. Technically book 1 was started in 2013 but let’s not split hairs.

Book 1 was The Husbands Secret by Liane Moriarty – I really enjoyed this book and would give it 4/5 stars.

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Book 2 is The Rosie Project by Graeme Simsion – really enjoying this too and it’s one that I really want to finish soon!

Let’s hope I manage to keep up with this challenge. Any book recommendations would be great – I read all genres.

2013 Photo Diary

We began the year with a trip to Bristol Zoo..

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Followed by a snowy stay at Bluestones holiday park..

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We went to visit friends in London who took some lovely pics of us…

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We played..

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Then we had some rather exciting news…

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Izzy had her first skating lesson..

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We dined alfresco..

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And chased bubbles…

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We went to the beach…

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There was a big birthday and a growing bump..

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We did some gardening..

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And the bump grew bigger again..

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We splashed..

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And learned to cook…

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We saw some giant HaaHoos at In the Night Garden Live ..

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We fished with Grandpa..

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Then I attended Britmums live and won a Vitamix..

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We visited Bluestone again and spent lots of time in the pool..

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We went to Camp Bestival and saw Mr Tumble!…

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We attended our first wedding as a family of 3 plus an ever growing bump..

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Izzy turned 2…

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And my bump grew and grew..

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We saw fireworks..

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Someone special arrived.. Welcome Chloe..

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We all love her very much..

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She is very cute..

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Our family of four..

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Chloe loves mammys milk…

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We met Father Christmas..

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Christmas Day playing with great nans pearls..

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Chloe dressed up like Mrs Christmas too..

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And she learned to smile..

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Lots more pics to follow in 2014 – Happy New Year! Xxx