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Positive Advent 2019

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Social media can be kind of crazy. Some days you feel like you are talking into a void. You say something, you may even thing it’s a clever something or a funny something but not a single reply out of 6000+ followers. I remember when that used to bother me, just slightly and before I realised that the majority of people these days follow 500+ people each. Not everyone will see your tweet about your cat walking like a human and that’s ok. I tend to use Twitter more these days for ramblings, catching up with news and bookmarking funny cat videos for the kids. It’s still one of my favourite social channels alongside Instagram.

This week I had one of those thoughts. About how nice it would be to share positive thoughts and thankful thoughts in the lead up to Christmas. I’ll admit that if I’m very stressed or ill I can feel low quite quickly and I wanted to challenge myself to start seeing more positives in my day than negatives. Positive Advent began. I decided that each day I’d share an amount of positive thoughts that correlated with the date so on the 1st I shared one, today I’ll share two and so on until the 24th when I hope to share 24! 

Yes 24 positive or thankful things from one day! How will I find them? I’m not sure. Some days certainly feel more negative than positive
But that’s the point. Finding the little things and far more importantly actually noticing them and shining a light on it.

Yesterday was the first day. I popped a tweet out and well it surprised me. So many of you. Replying, retweeting and YAY joining in. It was a good feeling. A really good feeling. Even if you don’t join in I encourage you to read the various replies on the hashtag, it brightened my whole day reading the responses and seeing my feed so positive and happy. Thanks to you all!

I’ve put a brief description of what Positive Advent is below, no super strict rules or guidelines. I may blog about it each week and feel free to join in with that but there’s no pressure to link back or credit me etc. Just enjoy it.

Positive Advent 

Post something which you are thankful for each day or something positive happening in your life. Each day increased the amount. The important thing to note is each day you are increasing the amount of good things you are looking for rather than adding one new thing each day. Hopefully in time helping those partaking to notice positives over negatives more often.

Day 1 – one thankful or positive note
Day 24 – twenty four thankful or positive notes 

Don’t feel obligated to join in every day. This is meant to help improve your mental health not add more pressure. Join in once, every day, every week or not at all. Be a lurker and just join in from the sidelines. Do whatever suits you or nothing at all, I am doing this for me rather than to have hundreds joining in. Every one who does join is a bonus 😊.

Thanks for reading and for all of you who replied yesterday – thank you for lifting my spirits.

If you want to follow this on social media you can do so by using the hashtag #positiveadvent – prior to yesterday it hadn’t been used in a few year so should mostly be related to this challenge. Note to self: get a brand new hashtag next time.

You can follow me on twitter here or Instagram here but you don’t need to be following to join in, please feel free to tag me though as I’d love to read more positivity in my feed.

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Image courtesy of Annie Spratt on Unsplash. Go check her out, she’s amazing.

Christmas Gift Guide 2019

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It’s that time of year again and I don’t know about you but I am feeling reasonably well organised this time. I have a good idea in my head of what the girls want for christmas and my family started a new tradition so we each buy for one other family rather than individual gifts for each child. I am one of ten children for those who don’t know and most of us have children now and as you can imagine it can get both costly and stressful. Instead we now draw names out of a hat and buy one more expensive gift for that family or couple. I made a small hamper of gifts last year for my brother and his wife and children and this year I am doing the same but for a different brother and his family. I don’t have the budget to go crazy for my children and I am also sensible enough to know that children don’t need £300’s worth of gifts at the ages of 6 and 8. The time will come when they will request iPads and fancy trainers I’m sure but for now they have a sensible pile of gifts and a stocking with bits and bobs. I still buy for my parents and the girls grandparents etc so I have rounded up a selection of gifts for men, women, children and even your cat. Hope it helps!

Please note some items have been gifted for inclusion, some are random bits I’ve found or brands I like to support:

For the kids:

Nestling:

One of the new toy crazes for this year. I think the girls will have lots of fun with this super cute Nestling:

Adopt an animal:

Izzy is a real animal lover and I think she will love this adopt an animal tin from The Personalised gift Shop. There are a few different options including Sloths, Llamas and Tigers.

Soft toys

Most kids are obsessed with soft toys and I know my girls have their beds covered in cuddly toys for bed. These penguins from The Gift Experience are just gorgeous.

Science in Wonderland

Have yourself a budding scientist on your fan or just a fairy lover? This kit from Smyths toys looks amazing and educational too!

Bookeez

Both girls love to write their own stories and make little booklets out of folded paper so I think they will love this make your own book set from John Adams.

Bic Gelocity Pens

I always include some kind of arts and crafts bits in the present pile or popped into stockings and these pens look great and not too childlike so will meet with the 8 year olds approval!

Johnson’s Baby Gift Set

We are longtime fans of the Johnsons bedtime range and still use it most weeks. I always include bubbles of some kind in the girls stockings as well as bath bombs and new flannels. These gift sets are perfect for parents of young babies up to early years.

Books:

We always have new books for Christmas, both girls are really getting into reading and doing so well that I want to keep encouraging it. This year so far I have ordered The Excitable Edgar book from John Lewis and am looking at a new Matt Haig book too – we loved the Truth Pixie books and Evie and the animals so I’m considering The Girl Who Saved Christmas.

Lava Lamps

Red candy have some gorgeous gift items including this beautiful black and gold lava lamp

Slap Ninja:

Slap Ninja looks like the kind of toy everyone will be pulling out at christmas parties for little kids and big kids alike. really looking forward to doing this with the kids!

For grown ups and big kids:

Sous Chef:

Sous Chef have a huge range of gorgeous food and kitchen related items in their online store including these salted caramel truffles from Artisan Du Chocolat

Yumbles:

Yumbles is another food and drink based website with lots of gifting options including this night before christmas hamper:


RTC100 Tyre Inflator

For the people who like more useful gifts, this digital tyre inflator may save some trips to the garage!

Nextbase Dash cam:

Next base have a range of dash cams to suit all budgets including this one for £149.99 with emergency SOS and Alexa built in.

The Ribman Gift sets

Have a food lover in your life? The Ribman has some great sauces and gift sets that nearly always sell out so go check them out and quick!

Yankee Candle:

If you know me at all you know I love candles and I was sent a gorgeous Sweet Maple Chai candle from Yankee and it smells incredible.

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Quality St at John Lewis:

Did you know you can order personalised tins of Quality St at John Lewis and choose your own flavours to go inside? I went for the strawberry and orange cremes and the purple ones!

Beanies Coffee

Beanies coffee have lovely gift sets including flavoured coffee jars like this:

Love Leggings

The most comfiest leggings I’ve ever owned. Great for both adults and children and a great price for what you get.

Canvas Prints from Canvas Art Rocks

There are so many gorgeous canvas and poster prints on Canvas Art Rocks, from Banksy murals to fave sporting moments as well as mugs in hundreds of designs. I like this Banksy poster:

Maykher

Maykher is a gorgeous Welsh brand that I love to support. They make the most amazing beanie hats, as well as lots of other products and have recently launched these beautiful candles. They are an ethical and sustainability focused company that I urge you to go find out more about.

The Preservation Society

The Preservation Society owned by the very lovely Angharad is a Welsh food business that I have loved for years! It was one of the very first brands I started to look out for at local food markets and her products are incredible. My favourite used to be the candied jalapeño syrup but everything I have had from her has been 10/10. she has lots of gift options including this Christmas All wrapped Up set or maybe a Jam Subscription package would be perfect for someone you love.

Baked By Mel Barabrith

Mel makes the most incredible Bar Brith and you can order it to be delivered to your home or to a gift recipient. Seriously delicious and a personal recommendation from me!

Guylian Chocs

Guylian have beautiful boxes of chocolates for Christmas this year, they are available in most large supermarkets, I’ve linked to Tesco above for ease of shopping:

Zippo Heatbank

We all know one person who is always cold and this rechargeable heat bank from Zippo is amazing. It also charges up devices such as mobile phones so it is a really handy gadget.


For your cat:

Gus and Bella:

This is a subscription box for cats and cat owners, the Christmas box is delightful. My fave bits were the cat socks and the gorgeous cat bauble for the tree. Tiger’s fave bits were the gingerbread cat nip toy and the sausage treats. I like that each month you get introduced to new cat food brands and get an idea of what your cat may like without forking out on a large pack. get 10% off your first box with code MUNCHIES10.

  • As stated some items have been gifted for inclusion in this gift guide.

The Pork Lovers Tourbus

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*AD* This post was commissioned by Interporc for the Pork Lovers tourbus campaign.

Last week I was invited to join the Pork Lovers roadshow organised by Interporc as it stopped in Cardiff for a brief visit.

Who are Interporc?

The Interprofessional Organization Agrifood of the Porcino of White Coat (INTERPORC), is a non-profit organization which all sectors of the value chain of White coat porcine are represented: Production, transformation and commercialization. It is the most important Interprofessional oranization in the meat sector due to the volume of pork production in our country.

The Pork Lovers Tour bus is a celebration of pork and on board you can learn lots about the various cuts of meat as well as enjoy plenty of delicious samples. The knowledgeable staff are on hand to educate you about the benefits of pork and what cuts are healthiest. There is an onboard nutritionist and chef. The chef cooks various dishes during several demos throughout the day and there are often cookery classes involved too.
I have long been a fan of pork and the Spanish style of eating with Serrano ham and chorizo being particular faves. 

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A lot of people don’t typically think of pork as a healthy meat but it has a low saturated fat content and is high protein. For example a 100g serving of pork tenderloin has approximately 290 calories but over 25g of Protein. When dry, the protein content of lean pork can be as high as 89% — making it one of the richest dietary sources of protein. It contains all nine essential amino acids necessary for your body’s growth and maintenance. For those worried about fat content don’t forget you can always trim the fat from various cuts such as pork chops – although for me I’d rather eat a little less and enjoy one of the tastiest parts which to me the fat is.

The chef taught me a simple tasty dish that is easy for home cooks of all levels. 

You will need:

Spanish bacon

A mix of peppers sliced into strips

Red onion cut into long slices

Extra Virgin olive Oil

Mozzarella

We started by frying strips of peppers and red onions in extra virgin olive oil until softened. We then set these aside before cooking 4 rashers of Spanish bacon. Once cooked we layered the strips of bacon so that they overlapped, we then added a pile of cooked peppers and onions and topped with strips of mozzarella. We then wrapped the bacon into a parcel and secured with sticks. We served with the remaining veg and a drizzle of balsamic syrup for a nice flavour contrast…oh and a beautiful glass of Spanish red of course.

The various cuts of meat you can buy especially Serrano and chorizo are just perfect for these last days of Summer. Especially if like me you love some easy Al fresco dining. One of my favourite ways to enjoy is by wrapping Serrano ham or even bacon around asparagus and baking or griddling on the hob. Drizzled with a little good quality oil it’s delicious and easy!

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What pork dishes do you enjoy? Would you like to see more pork recipes on the blog because I’m inspired right now!

If you can’t wait check out a pork recipe I already have only my site for Candied bacon with Nutella sauce. It’s a favourite for any Pork Lovers!

Thanks to Interporc for inviting to be part of their campaign.

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8 Ways To Enjoy School Holidays On A Budget

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I don’t know about you but I am always a little bit surprised by just how much the summer holidays cost, even when you don’t plan on going away for a real holiday. The cost of keeping your kids entertained 24 hours a day and more importantly fed ( I mean seriously …snack after snack after snack) can be a bit much when you are on an already tight budget. I decided that as much as I wanted to give the girls the best summer holidays I could manage that I realistically couldn’t afford to do paid activities all the time. And that is ok. Kids need some days where they are allowed to be slightly bored, to create their own entertainment and to just play in the house. Don’t let the world of Pinterest and Facebook tell you otherwise. We have chill out days where I catch up on household bits whilst the girls play or craft or colour..or you know what sometimes they just watch telly. We normally end up curled up watching a film with popcorn and having a real lazy day. However I and they would go stir crazy if we did that all the time. Here are some of my favourite and simple budget friendly ideas to keep your little ones busy during the holidays:

Camping in the garden – we have done this quite a lot this year. There are so many benefits to camping by your back door. You have access to a fridge, a bath and of course wifi! There is something so exciting for kids to sleep outdoors, yes you may not get them to sleep super early but in the holidays thats not such a big deal.

Exploring with a checklist – make a list or even just verbally give them 5 items they need to find. We do it with things like funny leaves, a particular colour flower ( we don’t pick them, just have a look and maybe take a photo ) or a cool rock.

Picnic in the park. We probably do this about once a week where we will take some sandwiches and maybe a tub of strawberries and just spend a few hours playing in the park. Often with cousins, sometimes school friends or just us. Our local park is especially lovely at this time of year as there are so many wildflowers.

Kids club at the cinema – most cinemas do kids club screenings every single day of the school holidays from approximately £2.50 per person. If you pick up your own snacks in the supermarket this is really cheap morning out and perfect for the occasional rainy day.

Toy sort out day – now this may not sound much fun but pulling out all of the toys to clean and sort is actually a good way to pass time and also declutter. We look through our books and soft toys regularly. It usually ends up with a handful being donated to charity or younger family members and the kids end up in a corner with forgotten toys for a few hours.

Cooking/baking – if it’s rainy we may bake some banana bread or fairy cakes. If it’s warm we may make chocolate covered strawberries or cornflake cakes so we don’t have to turn the oven on.

Gardening – it is surprising how much of an interest kids can take if you encourage it. We have planted tomatoes, cucumbers and squash amongst other things this year and the kids have helped weed and water most days. They are really excited now that we are almost ready to taste our produce…as am I!

Check your local authority website. There are generally lots of free activities throughout the holidays, including outdoor film screenings and craft days. We recently spent the day at Cardiff Bay’s fake beach. The beach and splash pool were free, we did end up spending out on rides etc but you could do it quite cheaply if you wished. We also discovered these rather incredible lego sculptures.

What are your top tips for keeping kids busy without spending a fortune?

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Noztock 2019 Preview

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Once again this year my younger brother Josh is reviewing Nozstock along with his friend Dan, I’ll hand over to them for this preview of Nozstock 2019:

It’s that time where Britain becomes enthralled in the festival season, where globally known artists flock to the UK’s countryside to perform to scores of revellers. Amidst all this chaos, this weekend, on the Nosworthy dairy farm in Herefordshire the Boutique festival Nozstock will take place. Although small this festival is not to be underestimated; music, food, art, sustainability and community all flow through the very soul of this festival. This year’s theme is The Wizard of Noz so we expect to see some magical costumes and themes.

Last year we were delighted to be asked to join in the fun and the very same has happened this year! So here’s who (and what) we’re looking forward to seeing at the 21st annual Nozstock festival.

Sleaford Mods

Headlining the festival on Friday will be the punky, foul mouthed Sleaford Mods from Nottingham, or as they would say ‘Nottz’ this eccentric duo has toured the UK to premier their album ‘Eton Alive’ and will be livening up the main stage in Nozstock this weekend. If you’re planning on bringing children to the set, it might be worth bringing some earmuffs for them to wear else they may be coming home with some new… words in their vocabulary.

Notable track – Tied up in Nottz

Buzzard Buzzard Buzzard

This denim clad clan from Cardiff are certainly not to be missed at this year’s festival, their 70’s-esque rock and roll sound will surely get the crowds in the mood for a dance. Formed in 2016 this four-piece has certainly gained traction with praise from Radio One and a set at Green Man festival. We’ll certainly be doing the ‘Double Denim Hop’ when these guys perform in the hidden valley.

Notable track – Double Denim Hop

Kings of the Rollers

Performing in the aptly named ‘Cubicles’ KOTR will definitely be dropping some stinkers for the crowds to enjoy, this DJ supergroup consisting of Serum, Bladerunner and Voltage are dominating the scene with their jungle influenced drum and bass sounds. It’s no doubt that KOTR will be keeping the bass rolling all night at Noz.

Notable track – Round Here

Soul II Soul

Are words even needed here? I mean this is a blog post so yes, but it goes without saying, it will be an honour to witness the genius of Soul II Soul in person and I couldn’t think of anywhere better to do so than Nozstock. Formed in London back in 1988 Soul II Soul are showing they are still a force to be reckoned with.

Notable track – Back to Life

Now Nozstock isn’t all about the music, this year we hope to take part in a few ‘extracurricular activities’ like beat the blacksmith, Anzahata yoga workshop, chicken sh** bingo and many, many more. The Wizard of Noz awaits!


  • Press tickets have been provided for this festival. All images have been provided by Nozstock.

Movies, Meals & Muddling Through Life – June 2019

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It’s been a while hey? A lot has been happening in my life since my last movies, meals and muddling post back in Autumn of last year. It has been a stressful and busy time. I haven’t taken as much time for myself as I should have even though I am well aware of the importance of self care and me time. I am working on that.

My health has taken a bit of a hit this year, I’ve had a few scary appointments, damaged my SI joint and lost a little too much weight but that at least seems to be improving. I am focusing massively on my health right now, eating as well as I can, getting outside as much as I can and exercising lightly so as not to irritate my back. Fingers crossed my efforts will mean that soon I will be back to full fitness. I’ve also begun to work harder to get all of my vitamins etc through food because for some reason my body doesn’t absorb iron or folate as it should and if i can avoid taking tablets I will.

Movies

I have managed to squeeze in a few films lately, not as many as I’d like but I have also blitzed through a few netflix series and a couple of books. At the cinema recently I’ve watched Aladdin, Dumbo, A Dog’s Purpose and Toy Story 4. My favourite being Aladdin. At home we have watched a few films too including old classics such as Big Foot & The Hendersons and Marley & Me. I also recently watched Booksmart ( the Netflix film) and I enjoyed that too.

TV

I don’t have an actual TV subscription such as Sky or BT right now but I use Netflix and Now TV ( thanks to a free subscription for Netflix from my phone provider and a 3 month freebie for Now TV thanks to Maccies monopoly). Most recently I have watched Game Of Thrones ( of course) – I actually enjoyed the final series, so much shorter than I’d have liked but I enjoyed. Chernobyl is a truly fascinating watch, highly recommend it. After Life – one of the best TV shows I have ever watched. So so good, heartbreaking in parts but truly excellent. Jailbirds was another interesting show to watch, a documentary set in a Sacramento county jail, it blew my mind a little how they managed to chat to fellow inmates via the toilets. I have just started the second series of Good Girls and I am powering through series 13 of Greys Anatomy.

Books

I haven’t had the best of concentration over the last 6 months, I have picked up so many books and had to just give up. These are the very few I have managed to stick with.

The Prisoner Of Auschwitz – probably one of the most powerful books I have read about a true historical event. It made me cry with both sadness and joy for the author. Well worth a read.

The Phone Addiction workbook. This has made me take a serious look at my phone usage. I have set screen time limits and I ( mostly ) keep to them. When the girls are around I try to limit my use a lot more. It is a really interesting book written by Hilda Burke an integrative psychotherapist.I recommend it if you find yourself mindlessly scrolling and notice an hour drifts by.

Meals

Hmm. I haven’t really eaten out much of late. A combination of insufficient funds and just not having the desire to. I did have a gorgeous afternoon tea for my sisters hen do at The Angel Abergavenny and a few lovely treats at my sisters wedding at The Emlyn hotel on the weekend but other than that my foodie life has been almost on hold. I am back in the kitchen more at home, cooking from scratch as much as possible. Creating new simple and more importantly budget friendly recipes that the girls and I have been enjoying.

Life in general

My sisters wedding and the planning part has taken up a lot of the last few months and I am so glad to say she had the most perfect day a few weeks ago. I did have some major concerns last week that my back wouldn’t quite hold up for me to walk down the aisle ahead of her ( I was maid of honour ) but yay it all went to plan. Last Friday my family stayed at the most amazing farm in West Wales prior to our weekend at The Emlyn where I experienced Reiki and sound healing for the first time. It wasn’t something I ever imagined trying but you know what I left the room feeling lighter and more relaxed, maybe there is something in it. I think it helped. I’m also hoping to be starting a new job soon, it was originally due to happen last month but it has been postponed – hopefully not for too long. The girls are continuing to grow and thrive, they are such kind and big hearted children and a pleasure to be around. They have reached an age where you can sit and talk about things and feel like its a real conversation. Izzy is an eco warrior already, obsessed with bugs and animals and saving the world. Chloe is funny and determined, never content to be just the little sister, wanting to do all that her sister can yet still managing to be small and soft and often offering a cuddle. I also did a little volunteering last month with our local food bank via a church that my mother attends and while it was quite literally the straw that broke the camels back ( I could barely move by the following day) it’s something that I want to do again, possibly not in exactly the same way but I want to do more.

And that’s it for now, I am hoping to be able to share a new recipe with you soon. Hopefully within the next month. I’d like to thank you for all for taking the time to come and read.

Eating Out In Cardiff – Grey’s At The Hilton

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*AD. This meal was gifted for the purpose of a review*

You’ll have probably noticed that I don’t write many restaurant reviews. I often find that the amount of work that becomes tied up with what is considered a free meal out doesn’t always feel like a valuable use of my time and also sometimes I just want to sit down and enjoy a meal without taking any photos. This isn’t meant to sound ungrateful, I massively appreciate the perks that blogging offers but it’s just how it is at times. Sometimes however things come about at the right time and when we were invited to visit both Grey’s at Hilton and an exciting Dinosaur day out in Cardiff for the girls, I immediately said yes.

My mother and I took both girls up for a day out in the Capital, travelling up on the train and making the day a bit of an adventure, they had a ball. I haven’t really done much in terms of blog related stuff with the girls for a while and Izzy especially found it pretty exciting that we were so well looked after and even more so that we got to see the dinosaurs before the general public.

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I have visited Grey’s previously with some blogger friends and enjoyed but that was just for a quick glass of prosecco. This time we were invited to try their midweek lunch deal and I was keen to see what they had to offer. Grey’s is a small but perfectly formed modern restaurant based on the ground floor of The Hilton hotel. We visited last summer ( 2018 ) – due to the fact that I have taken some time off from blogging the review is more than a little delayed but if you follow me on social media you will have seen my many stories and images at the time we visited.

Some of the dishes we enjoyed are no longer on offer but I am seeing lots of good things on social media so I would encourage you to go see what they currently have on the menu. Based on our experience and the 4.5 stars they have on trip advisor I can’t imagine you will be disappointed. I especially like that the current menu has a whole section just for eggs – eggs are underrated.

Dining out with a child with allergies is always tricky and often you are made to feel a little awkward, I’m pleased to say this wasn’t the case at Grey’s. They dealt with Chloe’s allergies with ease and made sure she had options. Whenever I review I like to watch how the staff treat other diners, because after all when they know you are reviewing I am sure most sensible establishments make sure you have very little to complain over. The restaurant wasn’t overly busy on our midweek lunch visit but there was one other large party and a few smaller tables dining at the same time and I was happy to note that everyone was treated well – promptly and politely. The restaurant has a cool, relaxed vibe and was clean and a pleasure to dine in. But onto the food…

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My mother and I started off with light salads, my mother really enjoyed the mackerel and mine was delicious too. Fresh, crispy salad is always what I want come the summer months and the creamy mozzarella was a treat. The girls had crudités and houmous which they both loved.

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Onto the mains, both girls really liked their dishes. Izzy had fish and chips and Chloe had a roasted chicken bun with chips – adapted for her due to her gluten allergy. Chloe was incredibly happy that she could have chips – this may seem minor to some but for a 5 year old girl who is told on most occasions that a jacket potato or boiled potato is the only menu option she was thrilled. As you can see!

The meals were plentiful and Chloe’s chicken was delicious, there was so much in the bun that we all had a little try!

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My mother and I opted for a roast chicken dish ( my mum) and chorizo and pea risotto ( me). We were both impressed with the flavour, quantity and aesthetic appeal of our dishes and both plates were empty pretty quickly!

For dessert the girls had an ice cream while we enjoyed a coffee. The coffee was excellent and I am a little fussy with coffee so a big thumbs up there.

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Overall we were all more than happy with our lunch, from the food to the service and atmosphere. Next up I’d love to try their bottomless brunch which at £27 for two courses and free flowing prosecco for 90 minutes sounds a bit special, anyone tried it?

And in case you were wondering the Dinosaur day out was pretty cool too!

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Thanks to Grey’s for inviting us and looking after us. As stated above our meals were complimentary for the purpose of this review.

Are you a writer if you stop writing?

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Why don’t you blog anymore Mam? Izzy has asked me this question more times than I can count over the last few months. It’s a difficult one to answer. The real answer is that when your life feels a mess and your mind feels oh so full then it is incredibly hard to get the words out. Or sometimes harder to contain the words you want to share but perhaps feel you shouldn’t. I try to explain it to her in a way that a 7 year old can process. I tell her that at times it is hard to get the words out of my brain and onto the computer, because my mind is too busy. I tell her that I want to focus as much of my time as possible on her and her sister. I have told her, yes I will blog again, she smiles and says good because you are good at it ( I am her mam after all ) and it means sometimes we get treats and days out. She isn’t daft that wise beautiful girl. She then adds that she thinks writing makes me happy and that I should do a job which makes me happy.

Everything I have told her when she asks is true. My mind is too busy. I do want to focus my time outside work on them.

Yet I know that writing for me has always been its own kind of therapy. As it is for many others I’m sure.

I do consider myself a writer, I mean it’s not my day job but I write, I have written and I guess I will continue to write. Some days it is as natural to me as breathing. The words tumble out one after another, often a ramble, sometimes a little sense and on rare occasions something I am proud of. It is part of me. It always will be. I started as a child writing short stories and as a teen my essays often went on far more than the 1000 word limit we were set. Oh Rebecca, you write well, if only you knew when to stop – an actual quote from my English teacher.

It has been nearly 7 months since I last wrote on here, since I last wrote anything more than a birthday card really. And I miss it. I have missed the tap tap at the computer and the way it feels when you know you are onto something good. The reaction when something you write means something to others, the responses when people tell you that what you wrote resonated.

I don’t know if I have felt like me in every sense for a really long time but I do know that writing is a huge part of me. It’s time to do something about that. Because it is something I can do something about. There are lots of thing in my life which I don’t have control over. This here, my space, my blog, my words. This is me ( ignore The Greatest Showman Tune which is no doubt in your head right now ).

I am not going to apologise for my absence like I have done before, I have needed this time. I am not going to say I will be writing a new post each week because I can’t promise that. But I plan to write. When I want to, when I can. And if people want to read it then great and if not well thats ok too.

Henry Miller: “Writing is its own reward.”

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15 Feel Good Christmas Films

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On the weekend I watched The Christmas Chronicles – a Netflix original that popped up on my screen a few days ago. Myself, the girls and my mum, sister and niece had a properly festive afternoon with snacks and mulled wine ( squash for the kids ) with candles lit and comfy clothes on! We really enjoyed it, it was a nice change to the animated festive films that I seem to have been watching over and over. Definitely worth a watch and it got me to thinking of other Christmas films, both the typical ones I know and love and the ones that perhaps I’ve missed.

I asked a group of blogging friends what films they know and love and I thought it was perfect timing to share the responses with you all! Here are 15 Christmas Films to enjoy this year. To make it easy I have linked to all of the films on IMDB so you can check out the ratings and certifications.

1. The Christmas Chronicles:

This came up a few times in the discussion and I have seen quite a few good reviews over on twitter too. It’s well worth a watch if you have Netflix and if not now would be a great time to take advantage of a free trial. Jo from Cup Of Toast says: We love The Christmas Chronicles. So much fun and a great modern take on how Santa delivers all those presents! Cheryl from Mummy Of 5 Miracles agrees and says its fantastic.

2. Die Hard:

Now I have to admit to something here… I cannot actually recall watching any of the Die Hard films! However Rachel from Coffee, Cake, Kids recommends it,for the following reason: Tight White Vest …perhaps I’ll have to give it a whirl.

3. Gremlins:

I was pretty petrified of these films as a child and I am yet to revisit as an adult but Amy from Amytreasure.com says: The films have to be watched every year and take me right back to my childhood.

4. The Muppets Christmas Carol:

Jenni from The Bear And The Fox says: Nothing beats The Muppet Christmas Carol! Great to sing along to, and who doesn’t love the Muppets? We watch it every year on Christmas Eve, without fail. Bring on the popcorn!

5.  Elf:

Emma from EmmaReed.Net and Becka from Mummy Est 2014 both recommend Elf as it is so funny and merry.

6. Miracle On 24th St:

This is one of my favourite Christmas films and Jennifer from My Mummy’s Pennies agrees, she says: My favourite Christmas movie is Miracle on 34th Street! I remember going to see it as a child at the cinema and getting a badge to wear declaring ‘I Believe!’ I just think it’s so magical and makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside.

7. Home Alone:

Emma from The Mini Mes and Me recommends Home Alone as her kids really love the action and injury however secretly her favourite is Elf! Rachel from Blogging Mummy says: Home alone, absolute classic and I’ve watched it every Christmas for years and years. Its only the first 2 though thats I love and now my boys love it too.

8. Home Alone 2:

Jo from A Rose Tinted World says she loves the Home Alone films and especially love the fact that Kevin gets around the concierge when using his Dads credit card!

9. The Santa Clause:

Lucy from The Parent Game says: It’s really funny and I love the message behind it. It’s a really sweet story and I love how he wins his ex wife and partner around in the end!

10.  Santa Clause The Movie:

Sarah from Kippers and Curtains recommends the 1980s classic Santa Claus the Movie she says: I used to watch it every year with my brothers and last year I took my 3 children to see it at the Backyard Cinema.

11. It;s A Wonderful Life:

Kate from Veggie Desserts says: I love It’s a Wonderful Life. A timeless classic that always makes me cry. I don’t even know if the tears are still because of the film or because it’s tradition to weep over it!

12. The Holiday:

I love The Holiday with its appropriate levels of cheese and Emma from Happy Family Hub agrees, she says: The Holiday is my favourite Christmas movie guilty pleasure! There’s something about a smoochy christmas film with a smattering of comedy to really give you the feels. Having Jack Black in it is also a bonus!

13. The Polar Express:

Clare from Wild Mama – Wild Tribe says: The Polar Express ❤️ it’s our Christmas Eve must watch as it’s so magical even for older children ‘the bell still rings for those who truly believe’

14. This Christmas:

This was a new one to me, I had not heard of it before but a musical, romantic drama? Yes please. Leanne from Anklebiters Adventures says: I love the family element to the film and the happy ending.

15. The Grinch:

Lauren from Raising Rocco says she loves The Grinch because:

1. I LOVE Dr Seuss
2. It’s hilarious!
3. The meaning behind it is lovely
4. “Maybe Christmas, he thought, doesn’t come from a store. Maybe Christmas perhaps means a little bit more.

I know there are lots more so how about you leave some of your faves in the comments?

 

 

Movies, Meals & Muddling Through Life – September 2018

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Well it’s been about 5 months since my last one of these supposedly monthly updates. Oops. Life has been busy and not busy and hard and stressful.

I have managed to squeeze in a few films lately, not cinema trips as much but Netflix has become my go to. When my mind is as full as it has been lately I struggle to concentrate on anything too serious or intricate and I may possibly have been watching a lot of films aimed at teenage girls but hey I’m learning a lot. I haven’t created too many new dishes other than this one for Welsh Lamb which I’m really proud of. I haven’t eaten out an awful lot either. Hmmm I have been a little boring if I’m honest. Let’s talk about what I have done instead of what I haven’t shall we?

Movies:

I remembered! I did have one cinema trip with my mam and sisters to see Mamma Mia 2, possibly the cheesiest film I have EVER seen and I’ve seen a lot of cheesy films but I enjoyed. It made most of us laugh and cry at various points and you leave with a feel good vibe. I also saw The Incredible 2 with the girls – was good fun.

On Netflix I’ve watched:

Sierra Burgess Is A Loser – I LOVED this film. Please do watch it, it’s a bit beautiful. I think anyway.

To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before – another super sweet teen rom com, I thoroughly enjoyed and now see what all the twitter fuss was about. Worth a watch.

I have also watched a whole heap of old films including such gold as Monster In Law and Bad Moms…yep. Sorry about that.

TV:

I don’t really watch much normal TV anymore, in fact I cancelled my TV service and I just use a fire box now. Pretty much only ever use the Netflix app.

I have enjoyed some new series on there such as Safe ( based on a  Harlan Coben book )  and Good Girls which I enjoyed a lot. I am also re watching Orange Is The New Black and every now and again an episode of Friends too.

Books:

I wrote about what I’m reading yesterday so I’ll just link you here. I am currently reading The Other Sister by Elle Croft – so far so good, I’ll keep you posted.

Food:

My appetite is still fairly rubbish but I am trying to make sure that what I do eat is better, I also make sure I walk a lot which boosts my appetite. Currently loving Aldi Tiffin. My soft spot for cheese is returning too..I am seeing this as a good thing and indulging it often. I am looking forward to a local restaurant visit next week with a friend so next month I’ll have something more to tell you!

Music:

Easy listening is what I want right now. Jason Mraz and George Ezra feature heavily on my playlists.

 

Everything Else:

As always there are a million things going on. Not all of them happy and easy. I’m not going to go into the hard stuff on here. I will talk about some of the nicer things, Izzy turns 7 this weekend. How is she 7? How? Gloriously funny and affectionate, she lights up all of the rooms. She is tall and beautiful, she’ll be taller than me by the time she becomes a teen I’m sure. She has an incredible interest in bugs and all animals and loves her little sister although she drives her crazy too. Chloe started full time school and as always just took it in her stride as if the sudden change in being away for 2 hours to suddenly being gone 6 hours was entirely normal, she definitely coped better than I did! She already seems a little more grown up, more independent and super duper tired every evening. Hangry tired meltdowns are common place. I have become an aunty again, twice in fact. Both of my brothers wives gave birth within two weeks of each other and I have two very cute nephews to add to my long list of nieces and nephews. I joined the gym! Well about 2 months ago now and other than this last week I have become a 3 x week gym goer. This week I have had some kind of cold virus and my body has needed rest.

 

 

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